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TEARS NOW AND THEN, Page 2

Rm Shanmugam Chettiar


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  Jan., 2013

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  Harvesting Dissatisfaction

  What would you feel about the temple

  You built if it is full of webs?

  What would you feel about the book

  You wrote if it gathered dust?

  What would you feel about the child

  You begot if it went mate-less?

  What would you feel about the person

  You loved if no requite of love?

  Unasked, we do such things in life

  And harvest dissatisfaction.

  Oct., 2013

  To Feel At Peak Is To Feel Good.

  In each stage you evolve about yourself

  And set your preferences for vocation,

  Hobbies, and values to beultimate,

  With the beliefs that you’ve reached the peak.

  You do this exercise at every stage

  As if that is final, which is not to be.

  You believe that you’re at peak at each time

  For you feel good in forming such beliefs.

  You won’t be the person you expect to be.

  You aren’t the person you’d expected to be.

  If you review what you wrote sometime back

  You cannot do it without amendments.

  Jan., 2013

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  Friendships And Relationships

  We don’t show ourselves as we are.

  We want the people’s acceptance.

  We want to meet their expectation,

  Which is a demand made on us.

  Else we should not mind losing them.

  Relationships differ from friendships.

  Friendships last where much is concealed.

  Relationships last where much is revealed.

  Jan., 2013

  Spouses Are Partners.

  My children must live long after me.

  Their children must prosper after me.

  No such aspirations for my spouse.

  Spouses cannot be more than partners.

  Jan., 2013

  To Carve A Name

  Aggressive marketing promotes sales.

  Aggressive canvassing promotes brand.

  Unless you spend a lot for promotion

  Of recognition you can’t carve a name.

  Jan.,2013

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  Apathy Of Good Men

  A few bad men; many good men;

  The society is inflicted

  Not with misdeeds of the bad men

  But with the apathy of good men.

  Jan., 2013

  Adopt One To Serve

  Parents brought you up; you must see them off.

  Childless, you must adopt one to bring up..

  Parentless, you must adopt one, to look after.

  There lies security of existence.

  Jan., 2013

  Good Citizens

  A country is rich with the citizens

  Who don’t spend because they can afford to,

  Who won’t buy because they are able to

  And who don’t grab things because they have hands.

  Jan., 2013

  Crazy For Titles

  Some want to add a title to their names.

  They want to be called with the title, then

  By the title alone and beam thus called.

  Insecure fellows go after titles.

  Jan., 2013.

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  Today’s Best

  The best love, the best friend,

  The best job and the best style

  Are dislodged at every stage

  Because of incoming influence.

  Jan., 2013

  Man’s Demands

  I must exist, that others should know.

  I must grow up, that others should watch.

  I must display, that others should see.

  This is the demand of the sixth sense.

  Jan., 2013

  Nature At The Hand Of Man

  Man is more damaging

  Than managing the Nature.

  Man is more straining

  Than maintaining the Nature.

  He would continue this

  Till he’s caught by it and lost.

  Jan., 2013

  Good Manners

  Between good manners and bad manners lies

  A fine line that tells you good manners are

  Doing petty sacrifices so that

  Others are not put to discomforts.

  Feb., 2013

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  Love Gives Meaning To Life.

  Be there nights to enjoy the moon.

  Be there sleeps to enjoy the nights,

  And hard works to relish the sleeps.

  Be there progress to enjoy works.

  Be there peers to gaze the progress,

  For which be your love for the peers.

  Feb., 2013

  To love, Shed Self-love.

  Unless one stops loving oneself,

  One cannot love well another.

  Love demands some sacrifices

  For which selfishness must drain down.

  Sexual love and mother’s love do it.

  Let love of other kinds apes them.

  Feb., 2013

  A Man's Aspiration

  My son was growing;

  I didn’t know I was aging.

  My son is going up;

  I didn’t know he was drifting.

  My son is living away.

  Now I know he is of no use.

  Feb., 2013

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  Be With Him

  Be on God’s side

  And accept what happens.

  Don’t expect Him

  To be on your side, and blame.

  It’s a nice way

  Of not being angry

  For anything that goes wrong,

  Which is His and not yours.

  Feb.,2013

  Wait. You’ll Come Up.

  Resilience is a law of nature.

  Plants have it; so do animals and man.

  It happens though the time it takes varies.

  Patience is the key to unlock it with.

  Have you fall down? Wait! You will wake up.

  If you are not, your children will do.

  Feb., 2013

  Seeing People

  Having grown old, I dropped seeing places.

  I cannot keep those impressions for long.

  Instead, I go seeing people, in whom

  I can imprint as they could live farther.

  Feb., 2013

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  Freedom Of Expression

  Freedom of expression has no meaning

  If it is not granted to those despised,

  Estranged suppressed and employed as well.

  Forget. It is not going to happen.

  Feb., 2013

  Credits For The Age

  He is not taller but older than me.

  He is not higher but older than me.

  He is not richer but older than me.

  I must give him allowance for the age.

  Feb., .2013

  Basic Traits Are They.

  Is he mean? Blame his possessiveness.

  Is he selfish? Blame his greediness.

  Is he shameless? Blame his libido.

  Is he a slave? Blame his insecure feelings.

  Feb., 2013

  To Aspire Rather Than Expect

  Have more aspiration and less expectation.

  Aspiration is self-initiative.

  Expectation is external dependence.

  Aspire more, expect less and beat the stress.

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  So Soon Had He Died.

  I would have fed him to his taste,

  Nursed him without a murmour

  And treated him with more concern

  Had I known that he’d di
e so soon.

  Mar., 2013

  Don’t Fight For Replacement.

  When’ll a woman become a Pope?

  Woman! Such fancy you must drop.

  Don’t go for replacement of Heads.

  Build one and become its Head.

  Mar., 2013

  The Unfair Remembrance

  Writers are known,

  Whose works we haven’t read.

  Inventers aren’t known,

  Whose devises we use.

  Are we fair in remembrance?

  Mar., 2013

  A minimum Gratefulness

  I get two parents, four grand parents

  And eight great grandparents, all of whom

  I must know and leave short notes of them,

  A minimum gratitude for inheritance.

  Mar., 2013

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  To Stop Self-pity

  I pity my son, chronically ill,

  And, hence, his children with no fortune.

  I pity my daughter, a caged bird

  And also her son whose love was not paid.

  I pity my wife, a cancer patient

  When I detected a tumor in me.

  Tendency to pity them has gone up

  To put a full stop to my self-pity.

  Mar., 2013

  Faith Is Lost As Wholesale

  How to cure has gone

  And how to make money has come in.

  How to educate has gone

  And how to capitalize has come in.

  How to serve has gone

  And how to exploit has come in.

  Faith has been lost as wholesale

  And insecurity has set in.

  Mar., 2013

  Sheep For Shepherd

  Customers are an asset.

  Clients are an asset.

  Devotees are an asset.

  They are sheep to their shepherds.

  Mar., 2013

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  The Moving Mass

  Be they caterpillars or ants,

  They move in processional lines,

  Each one following the other,

  With the same pace and same rhythm

  Without minding where they’re led to.

  Any mass movement is like that.

  So are religious enterprises.

  Mar., 2013

  Share The Glory.

  The Son of God is not jealous of God.

  Virgin Mary is not jealous of Son.

  Be not jealous of your father or son

  They are your extension and share the fame.

  Mar., 2013

  Make Comfort Zones.

  You must feel secure or be in comfort zones

  To practise or preach virtues and morals.

  Serve to provide assistance and supports.

  Lip services, abundant, are of no use

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  No One Is True To You.

  However loyal he is to you,

  You cannot have him speak to you facts

  Unaltered or unadulterated.

  He wants harmony more with you.

  Mar., 2013

  Attachments Are Removed.

  I lost my drive; I lost my fire;

  I lost my sheen on 22nd march

  When my thyroids were removed

  For cancer; with that attachment too.

  31.03.2013

  Practise Promptness.

  When you fail to do what you’ve intended,

  That strengthens your inability to do,

  Your temperament to insincerity

  And your tendency for justification.

  Mar., 2013

  The Old Beg Their Children.

  Out of love, I had pleased my child;

  Now I please it to gets its care.

  Out of pity, I had served it.

  Now I beg it to get its pity.

  Apr., 2013

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  Credits To The Body

  Wounds are not cured by drugs and doctors

  But by healing mechanisms.

  Wits are not gained by books and teachers

  But by learning mechanisms.

  Healing and learning mechanisms

  Are the phenomena of the Life-force.

  Apr., 2013

  Don’t Count On Offspring

  I beget a child to bear my stamp,

  To represent me after my exit,

  And to inherit mine; it is my wish.

  It is my heir and my nominee.

  I can act only as its guardian.

  It has more right on me than I on it.

  I invest love without a guarantee,

  And persevere in its wellbeing.

  Old lions are dying being unattended.

  One is lucky should one get the child’s care.

  Apr., 2013

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  Curses Inevitable

  A merciless mother

  Is a curse to her child,

  Being not replaceable

  And not the child’s making.

  A merciless offspring

  Is a curse to parents,

  Being not replaceable

  And not retrievable.

  Such like misfortunes are

  In plenty, God’s making.

  Apr., 2013

  A Solitary Living

  Living alone is now a new life style

  Living alone is not feeling alone,

  Nor feeling lonely or isolated either.

  Singleton is a self-imposed life style.

  Time and space are in absolute control.

  Freedom of movements needs no adjustments.

  Socialization is on one’s own term.

  As a proprietor, he/she answers no partner.

  Is this a trend showing intolerance?

  Is tolerance in deterioration?

  The solitary living has potential

  To maroon you from the mate’s companionship.

  Apr., 2013

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  Hair-dye

  Every stimulant is an irritant.

  The sky is spoilt with radiation.

  Immune system is in low vibration.

  Any irritant can cause cancer.

  Cancer is a biological suicide,

  A device to curb over population

  So that predators do not wipe the preys.

  Even thehair-dye canbe fatal to one.

  Apr., 2013.

  The Society Must Condemn.

  It is a disgrace to have servants in rags,

  Not to say about one’s family,

  For the society values the one that way.

  Equally it must be a disgrace to one

  Who neglects or abandons one’s parents.

  The society must treat such ones likewise.

  Apr., 2013

  Death Is Made Easy.

  My people have made me ready

  To face death without anxiety

  By withdrawing care and concern

  And inflicting hate and contempt.

  Apr., 2013

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  Dishonesty At A Check

  Lured by sensual comforts,

  We tend to be loyal.

  Struck by the ego’s pride,

  We strive to be honest.

  We have to feed senses;

  We have to feed the ego,

  Which is why dishonesty

  Is at check from growing.

  Apr., 2013

  One’s Name Dies With One.

  The successor to your throne

  Is not to uphold your name

  But to establish his name

  Big enough to shadow yours.

  Apr., 2013

  The One To Love Most

  The one who you love the most is

  Whom you are free to scold,

  Whom you can ask at ease,

  Whom you’ll love to obey

  And whom you fear to lose.

  Try to have s
uch one

  To beat the loneliness.

  Apr., 2013

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  Siblings And Offspring

  He is my brother; she is my sister.

  They have same blood as I, drawn from parents.

  He is my son and she is my daughter.

  They have blood of which mine is only a half.

  Though of same blood, siblings are loose in knots.

  Though with half blood, offspring are a tight knot.

  Siblings are like branches from a fork.

  Parent and child link is like root and stem.

  Apr., 2013

  Relation Is A Prejudice.

  Entrust not a work to someone

  Because he is your relation.

  You’ll shy to bargain or argue

  And he’ll capitalize on it.

  Apr., 2013

  To Sustain Friendship

  Symbiosis sustains

  Friendship of same gender.

  Sexuality sustains

  Friendship of cross gender.

  Otherwise all friendships

  Would suffer and wither,

  Just for want of oil

  To fuel the friendship.

  Apr., 2013

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  Let Me Go With Good Hopes.

  It still disturbs me that my parents died

  Before seeing births of my grandchildren.

  It gives me relief that my parents died

  Before seeing me developing cancer.

  After my death will come plus and minus

  To my descendants; I need not bother.

  May, 2013

  Inefficiencies Are Pets.

  Inefficiencies enter through the backdoor.

  Inefficiencies thrive in the hide outs

  With the efficiencies put in lock up

  In all sectors, and at the public’s cost.

  May, 2013

  Parents Are Spared.

  Parents can’t bear deaths of their children.

  Even the spouses can’t match them in grief.

  That’s why parents die before children do.

  Parents are spared pain, and children denied care.

  May, 2013